Dear EJ Obiena: An open letter
Hello.
From the outside looking in, the Paris 2024 Olympics might seem like a missed opportunity for you. Some might call it your “worst Olympics” for missing the podium by a whisper. But for those who truly understand your journey, it is anything but. In fact, this might be your most remarkable performance yet.
In a world where athletes often stand alone, you’ve risen above immense challenges. You’ve faced financial hurdles, skipping the Asian Indoor Athletics Championships due to lack of funds, and even auctioning your shoes to keep your dreams alive. You’ve battled accusations from the Philippine Athletics Track and Field Association, all while pushing your body to its limits and beyond.
And yet, in spite of everything, you delivered an extraordinary performance that placed you as the fouth best pole vaulter in Paris 2024, a feat only a handful could ever hope to achieve and a leap from 11th in Tokyo.
As someone who has watched the Olympics since I was a kid, witnessing only two medals from 1988 to 1996, and then a historic haul in 2020, your accomplishments light a beacon of hope. Each medal in our history is a testament to the sacrifices of those who paved the way, just as you are doing now.
You stand as the best pole vaulter in Asia and second in the world, inspiring a nation that sees in you not just an athlete but a symbol of resilience and courage. The Olympics might be the ultimate stage, but your true victory is in your journey—where you have won countless battles that medals can’t measure.
EJ, you are allowed to cry and feel sad, just as many of us did. We wanted this for you more than you might ever know, knowing all that you’ve gone through. Let this be a reminder that tears are the bitter we endure before we taste the sweet. You’ve achieved World Championships, Asian Games, Asian Athletics Championships, Universiade and Southeast Asian Games medals.
But beyond medals and titles, you’ve earned a place in the hearts of millions who draw inspiration from your tenacity. You’ve shown us that greatness isn’t measured by the weight of a medal but by the strength of character and spirit.
EJ, you owe us nothing; we owe you everything. You have already won the hearts of many, and we will be here cheering you on as you continue your journey. While the podium eluded you this time, remember that your story is far from over. The best is yet to come, and we eagerly await your return on the road to LA 2028.
Isaiah 60:22: “When the time is right, I, the Lord, will make it happen.” Hidilyn Diaz won her first Olympic medal after four attempts, and Carlos Yulo had to persevere through two. Our lives have their own timelines, and your time will come.
Until then, reach for the stars, leap beyond the heavens, and know that while you may not have a medal by your heart, our hearts (115 million Filipinos) beat for you, EJ, and your journey is a testament to the power of faith, perseverance, and the unwavering spirit of a nation. Mabuhay and rock on!
