Keeping the spirit of Paskong Pinoy in Toronto
Christmastime is always a double celebration for Yanessa Alfaro, whose birthday falls on Dec. 24.
When she and her husband Carlo moved from Quezon City to Toronto, Ontario, six years ago, their first Christmas there was quiet as they adjusted to life being away from home. But that has since changed with the arrival of their kids. And in 2022, her sister also joined them for Christmas, “making it even more special.”
“This year, it’s even more exciting because my parents are here with us for the first time, turning it into a heartwarming family reunion,” said Alfaro, who hasn’t been back in the Philippines since migrating to Canada.
For the mom of two, there is a lot to love about Paskong Pinoy: “I love Simbang Gabi, the early morning Masses that bring the community together in faith and unity. Seeing the parol (Christmas lanterns) light up the streets always brings joy and warmth, as they truly represent the Filipino Christmas spirit. I also look forward to Noche Buena, our Christmas Eve feast filled with delicious dishes like hamon, bibingka, and puto bumbong.
“The sense of togetherness and festive energy in the Philippines is unmatched—it makes the season feel truly magical,” she added.
Filipino traditions
As their family grew over the years, they’d begun incorporating more Filipino traditions to share with their kids. Holidays in the Alfaro home these days are a mix of old and new traditions as they explore how other cultures celebrate Christmas, as well.
The clinical placement officer for Seneca Polytechnic and AchieveMentor founder-slash-CEO continues to attend Midnight Mass before sharing a big meal with the family on Christmas Eve. “The family gatherings and the spirit of Misa de Gallo remain central to our celebrations,” said Alfaro.
Their yuletide spread is a blend of Canadian holiday fare and Filipino party staples, like pansit, suman, and lumpia. She also shares these local dishes with her community in Canada. “I bring a piece of Filipino Christmas by sharing our traditions with friends and the community. I introduce them to Filipino food, games like Pinoy Henyo, and share stories about our unique customs.”
Despite the cold winter, Alfaro’s family always makes the season lively by “blending Filipino traditions with our new Canadian experiences, enjoying festive meals, and creating lasting memories together.”
She adds, “I also enjoy volunteering and donating during the season to spread the joy of giving.”
This year, there will be a small celebration with her family at home, but they also have plans for a post-Christmas party with family friends.
“We’ll rent an indoor playground so the kids can have fun while we enjoy food, catch up, and plan next year’s activities,” she said. “Even though we’re far from the Philippines, I’m committed to keeping the warmth and joy of Paskong Pinoy alive.”
